Change Your Mind

My darling. It’s okay to change your mind.

It’s okay to change your mind as often as you like, but I must warn you. If you continually change your mind, the world around you will change.

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There is a vine that grows along our fence.

My daughter loves it, but it doesn’t bloom.

It’s just lush and green. This is the year of the bloom, so this vine bothers me. I couldn’t just let it be a non blooming vine, so here is how I tried to help it!


I planted a blooming vine beside it. 🙂

My grand idea was…the bloomer would intertwine with the non bloomer and give the illusion that it blooms. Pretty smart huh? Nah..I never overthink.

I kept an eye on the blooming vine and noticed it wasn’t happy. It was growing but not grabbing the fence. It’s tendrils would just droop forward, away from the fence like it was having a little rebellion.

So, I dug it up and moved it down the fence.

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I changed my mind. It didn’t need my help, but it did need it’s own space to grow and  bloom.

The next morning I walked out on my porch, looked at the vine and realized it was clinging to the fence. At some point during the night, it stood up straight and began making itself at home.

There is no part of your life written in stone.

Are there changes you wish to see?

Your life will change my lovely, once you change your mind.

Bloom where you are planted. If you’re not, then move.


  1. That’s Virginia Creeper, I believe, and I have seen it bloom – small white flowers. Maybe it blooms every other year? Maybe it likes to change, too. 🙂

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    1. Letitgocoach says:

      Really? Thank you! Change is good for the soul. 🙂

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      1. I Googled it to check – it belongs to the grape family, and some variants have little white flowers, others, what look like tiny grapes. In any event, yes, change is indeed good for the soul!

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      2. Letitgocoach says:

        Look at you going that extra mile! Don’t you just love Google? Thank you for the info. I’ll let you know if it does anything, but it does resemble a grape vine. Much love to you! ❤

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  2. “All appears to change when we change.” — Henri Amiel
    One of my favorite quotes.

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  3. Create Space says:

    Lovely post and sound advice!

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    1. Letitgocoach says:

      Thank you lovely. xx


  4. Des says:

    I’m not sure about the overthinking part, but I think your grand idea was quite creative! I would love to see a picture a year later to see how the two are getting along. They might quite beautiful! Thanks

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    1. Letitgocoach says:

      Thank you Des! xx


  5. Absolutely all it takes is one thought to make a change it is so simple and often unrealised.

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