When she told me she was moving, I was happy for her, but sad for me. We didn’t have to see one another everyday to know we had each other’s back. She was my neighbor.
When we had the snow and ice storm earlier this year, she texted me for a Chemex filter. I placed some in a ziplock baggie, and made my way through the snow to her back door. I loved the fact that with everything we could run out of, the Chemex was a priority.
That day confirmed, she’s that neighbor.
I’ve written about ‘M’ before in Just Say Yes and that Blogpost was written through inspiration from her. I can’t fault her for moving because she went back home to be near family, and it’s a joyous occasion when we know where home is. Thursday was my birthday and she revealed herself in a magical way.
I noticed a car parked in front of my house. A woman stepped into the yard smiling brightly, and holding a bouquet of flowers. I stepped outside to meet her and she asked, “Are you Barb?” I nodded my head in agreement, not fully certain what was going on. She strolled down the path to stand in front of me, held out the bouquet and said, “Happy Birthday from M!”
She remembered my birthday and asked a friend to bring flowers! I felt her presence in that moment. Today, she lives in Kentucky, but we chat every week. I believe we’re closer now than when she lived behind me, but that’s how it happens. People like her move into your heart, not just your hood.
Now, she’s in a new neighborhood where she’ll make new friends and soon they’ll discover. Not only is she a forever friend, she’s that neighbor.
I read this the other day and really enjoyed it. Its great when kindness comes unexpectedly and friendships evolve.
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The unexpected can be beautiful indeed. Thank you lovely. xx
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There’s nothing like a good neighbor…sorry she moved but happy birthday! I’m glad she remembered! That’s so sweet!! ๐
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Thank you Janie. It was super sweet! ๐งก
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A belated happy birthday to a shining star. ๐ค๐ค๐ค
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Thank you my sweet friend! (From one shining star to another) ๐
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HI Barb,
Great that you still keep in touch! Good neighbors are hard to come by.
By the, at your suggestions I joined Bumble and it is so much better than OKCupid. Thank, you!!
Blessings to you! โฅโฅ
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Hey Ana! I’m so glad you’re enjoying Bumble and hope you meet someone who taps on your heart. Many blessings and much love! ๐
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It really is great to have a neighbor like that. And a friend. And I love that you both prioritized the Chemex! (of course.) ๐
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Right? It’s pretty magical when you find someone who has the same priorities. ๐
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A lovely post and a happy belated birthday. Xxx
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Thank you Liz. It was a splendid day! โค
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Lovely. Glad it was. ๐
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Great that youโre keeping in touch
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Yes ma’am!
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